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How Computer Games Can Support Autistic Children
In a world where technology is constantly evolving, computer games are becoming more than just entertainment — they're meaningful tools that can enrich the lives of autistic children and young people. With the proper guidance and balance, gaming can help build confidence, support skill development, and create moments of joy and connection.
This blog explores how computer games, when utilised positively and responsibly, can be valuable for enriching the strengths and interests of children with Autism.
Why Computer Games Can Be So Supportive
Many autistic children enjoy the predictability, structure, and creativity that digital games offer. These safe and engaging environments allow children to explore, experiment, and learn at their own pace — often without experiencing sensory overwhelm or social pressure.
Through enjoyable gameplay, children can practise essential skills while staying connected to something they genuinely love.
Building Social Skills Through Play
Social interactions in the real world can sometimes feel fast, confusing, or unpredictable. Games can provide a gentler starting point.
- Multiplayer and co-operative games encourage teamwork, turn-taking, and shared problem-solving.
- Common interests, like Minecraft or Pokémon, can spark conversations with siblings, classmates, or friends.
- The ability to pause, restart, or control interactions creates a sense of safety and success.
These experiences don't replace real-life practice, but they can boost confidence and help children approach social situations with more comfort and understanding.
Supporting Communication Skills
From storylines to instructions, quests to character dialogue, many games naturally support communication and language development. Children may:
- Learn new words and concepts
- Practise writing through in-game chat
- Ask for help or negotiate with teammates
- Express their ideas creatively through building or designing
For some children, communicating through a screen feels safer and less overwhelming, offering a positive entry point for interaction.
Strengthening Cognitive Skills
Computer games often require thinking, planning, and strategising — all skills that can benefit children in everyday life. Depending on the game, children may practise:
- Problem-solving
- Flexible thinking
- Planning and sequencing
- Attention and persistence
- Spatial reasoning
These benefits occur naturally through play, making learning enjoyable and motivating.
Supporting Emotional Development
Understanding emotions and managing big feelings can be challenging for many autistic children. Games can be a helpful support tool by offering:
- Predictable emotional scenarios
- Characters who model empathy and perspective-taking
- Opportunities to practise coping strategies
- A safe space to explore frustration, excitement, and achievement
When parents or caregivers discuss these in-game moments with children, it can deepen learning and help build emotional understanding that carries over into real life.
Staying Balanced: The Risks of Too Much Gaming
While gaming can offer numerous benefits, striking a balance is key. Excessive screen time may lead to:
- Reduced physical activity
- Overstimulation or sensory fatigue
- Difficulty winding down before sleep
- Less engagement in offline hobbies
- Fewer chances for face-to-face social interaction
The Australian Institute of Family Studies recommends a maximum of 2 hours of recreational screen time per day for children aged 5–17. This guideline can help families build healthy routines that work for their child.
Parents and caregivers can support balance by:
- Setting clear, predictable gaming boundaries
- Choosing games together
- Encouraging outdoor play, creativity, and rest
- Being mindful of in-app purchases and pop-ups
- Watching for signs of gaming becoming stressful rather than enjoyable
Tips for Parents and Caregivers
1. Follow your child's interests.
Games that align with their passions are naturally motivating.
2. Play together when you can.
Sitting beside your child or asking them to show their creations builds connection and confidence.
3. Keep routines clear and consistent.
Timers, visual schedules, or gentle warnings help transitions feel easier.
4. Look for games that build skills.
Puzzle, building, and adventure games often support problem-solving and creativity.
5. Ask for professional recommendations.
Occupational therapists, teachers, and support staff can recommend games tailored to your child's specific needs and interests.
Benefits and Boundaries
Computer games can be powerful tools that support autistic children in learning, connecting, and feeling empowered. When families understand both the benefits and the boundaries, gaming becomes a meaningful part of a well-rounded routine. By embracing children's interests — including gaming — we help create a world where autistic young people can thrive, explore, and shine in their own unique way.
